From the beginning of time men have been perceived as "the rock", "the provider", "the foundation that holds every house hold together". They are strong minded, and their greatest fear is to ever be perceived as "weak". Women love a strong man, truth be told we like to be rough handled every now and then but the question is can we still love a man who carries emotional baggage? Can we really handle a sensitive man?
I'm sure by now you know every person you come across has their own sets of problems. Whether they be emotional, social, financial, physical, whatever, we all have problems. Some men deal with it pretty well. These are the men that you wouldn't even know that deep underneath that beautiful molding of a body is pain & agony. Pain & agony that they have been hiding for many years. Then there are some that wear their pain as a badge of honor. Let it be known to everyone who they come across that they too have problems and is still unable to cope with them.
Being a female, we are natural nurturers. We listen to them and try to solve whatever problems they go through. But truth be told after a while this becomes overbearing. His negative outlook an life is a burden, constantly pulling a gray cloud over your bright and sunny day. Sure we want a guy that can express his feels, and not just be an emotionless boulder. But where do we cross the line between a sensitive guy and a guy that just needs to grow a set of balls and just accept life for what it is?
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